I did not know CAL but I know PAUL as a life time friend. When he shared his grief, I went running to the book ‘Something that may shock and discredit you’ by Daniel Mallory Ortberg - the best exposition of the intensity of life that I have read in recent years. All I can add then Paul is that when CAL said she loved you, it was undoubtedly with an overwhelming sense that most bodies can’t sustain. There’s no violation here in this action, only love. CT
