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Dr Cal Shearer. D. Phil Oxon 21st March 1999 - 30th October 2024

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Thinking of you Cal, today and everyday

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One year without you. I miss sending you memes that make me laugh, swapping TV show recommendations and getting your live commentary, singing in the car, remembering random snippets of our childhood. I miss you woven into the fabric of my life, now and forever. With love, Your big sister xxx

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Thinking of all who loved Cal x

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One year without you. I miss sending you memes that make me laugh, swapping TV show recommendations and getting your live commentary, singing in the car, remembering random snippets of our childhood. I miss you woven into the fabric of my life, now and forever. With love, Your big sister xxx

Lit by Ellie Shearer

Thinking of all who loved Cal x

With so much love always Cal xxx

Nina, Shihab and baby

With so much love always Cal xxx

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With love today and always,

Sarah and Wilkie

Love you all. Sending thoughts and prayers to you this day.

Lit by JSRachele

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Forever in our hearts dearest Cal. Deb, Jacqui Roy and Bridget. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Forever in our hearts dearest Cal. Deb, Jacqui Roy and Bridget. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Sunflowers crocheted by Lottie! 🌻

For Vicky, Paul and Ellie in memory of all the happy, funny, tender and poignant times you shared with Cal.

For Vicky, Paul and Ellie in memory of all the happy, funny, tender and poignant times you shared with Cal.

Thinking of you Cal and my heart goes out to Paul, Vicky and Eleanor and to the friends and family who love you.

Dear Cal, I’ve been thinking about you recently remembering you as a young teenager at the first Spitalfields Street Party, dazzling in the most beautiful gown - Mummy's wedding dress. How very regal and composed you looked. I remember too that you were a lover of gardening, cooking, nature and animals. Wishing you peace and serenity. With love.

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For Ellie, in remembrance of extraordinary Cal.

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Lit by Will Cook

Thinking of you all today, and of lovely Cal too ❤️ I just saw that they were awarded their DPhil in the end. Classic Cal, somehow they're still performing marvels even when they're not around. Sending you all immense love xxx

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Cal, I have learnt so much about you since you’ve passed. If I didn’t already think you were a spectacular human, it is incredibly clear now how wonderful you were. You were the best younger sibling ally anyone could have asked for

Lit by Nina Fidderman

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We are thinking of you today Cal - there are still no words. Wrapping my virtual arms around the whole of the family. Today and always xxx

Lit by Jill O'Reilly

Thinking of you Cal always - so funny, so clever, so missed 💛 xxxxxx

Thinking of you Cal always - so funny, so clever, so missed 💛 xxxxxx

Lit by Issy Fidderman

Thinking of you, Cal and sending all my love.

Lit by Simon Winchester

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With all of my love

With all of my love

You'll never be out of our thoughts but today you're right at the centre. We'll light a real candle too. X

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Keeping Cal in my thoughts, and sending love to all xxx

Keeping Cal in my thoughts, and sending love to all xxx

So many of us are devastated by the loss of Cal who was a part of many people's lives and stories, in many different ways. Most of all are Ellie, Vicky, Paul and Immi - sending all my love on this day ❣️

So many of us are devastated by the loss of Cal who was a part of many people's lives and stories, in many different ways. Most of all are Ellie, Vicky, Paul and Immi - sending all my love on this day ❣️

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Thinking of you all and especially remembering Cal

Thinking of you all and especially remembering Cal

Lit by Sue and Andrew

Thinking of Cal and all their family with love.

Thinking of Cal and all their family with love.

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Sending all my love to your family on this, the saddest of days ❤️

Sending all my love to your family on this, the saddest of days ❤️

Lit by Cordelia Drew

Lit by Debbie S

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Thinking about you Cal. With love to you and all your family ♥️

For our Beautiful Cal. Remembering you today and every day. You are always surrounded by love. ❤️🌈🌻 Mum and Dad xxx

For our Beautiful Cal. Remembering you today and every day. You are always surrounded by love. ❤️🌈🌻 Mum and Dad xxx

Lit by Mum and Dad

Thinking of Cal, resting in peace and in the love of those who miss them.

Thinking of Cal, resting in peace and in the love of those who miss them.

Thinking of you Cal, today and always, and of all your loved ones.